‘You never have time for me’ This phenomenon is common in almost every relationship. Marriage is new or old, it is necessary to make time for each other. But the lack of time ends more when the marriage is new and the couple is going through the process of understanding each other. Although this is a small complaint, many times the partner starts feeling hurt. Due to which the distance in the relationship increases a lot.
Before today there were not many distances
If we think about the life of couples 30-35 years ago, then we will find that very few women were employed at that time. Long distances and traffic jams did not have to be spent 8–10 hours in the office. The life of that generation was relaxed in this respect. There were not many ambitions and there was no fierce competition, so life was smooth. After sending their husband and children, women used to spend more time in domestic work. Were joint family. Apart from this, there were friends for shopping and talking.
But today, there are single families. People living in other cities far away from their cities for jobs also do not have that deep social connection. As others are cut off from the relationship, so too do the spouses’ expectations from each other. In such a situation, when those expectations are not fulfilled due to the distance, then complaints start increasing. Because nowadays people have become completely dependent on their partners. But when they don’t get that love, a confrontation arises.
Time constraints
Lack of time is affecting not only the mutual relationships of couples but also their relationships with parents, children and others. Relationships do not form or worsen in a day. It is a long process. In order to have a life of love in relationships, it is important to give each other quality time. It is also not right to ignore the partner’s complaint. If there is better sharing, most of the difficulties of the relationship can be overcome. Yes, it is possible that not everything of the partner can be considered, but his complaint can be heard patiently. So take some time for relationships. This is an investment that will keep the relationship happy in the future.