It is your choice to keep or not have a relationship with your Ex after a breakup. Like many people break their relationship completely after their breakup. Some people live as friends and some prefer to have a normal relationship.
If I talk about my break up with my girlfriend then I felt that both of us would not be able to take this relationship further. So we changed our ways. Then after that slowly some of his and my common friends went away and some are still together. This happens to many people in today’s time.
She lost her life, she was your past. But what about the people who have become your friends because of that….?
After the girl leaves, should you also break the relationship with them or are they confused about how to maintain a relationship with them. As if I too was Confuse at that time.
Girlfriend creates relationship
Many times you go on a trip / outing with your girlfriend or go to a party, then you get mixed up with her friends. Because of this, you also become good friends with girlfriends friends.
After that there is a good bond between you guys and even if you never have a girlfriend, you go to roam or enjoy.
Then if for some reason your breakup happens and the situation that comes is very difficult. You think that the girl you had a relationship with has broken up and after this, many kinds of thoughts come in mind and you ask their question to yourself. like:
1. Should I have a relationship with friends who became friends due to my girlfriend?
2. Will those friends help patchup again?
3. Are these people the reason for my breakup?
4. Will they explain it after the breakup?
1. Do you want to patch up again?
Dr. Gitanjali said that after the breakup, it is thought in everyone’s mind that I wish that person comes back in his life. Some of these people start digging the way to patchup and some people go ahead in life without noticing this.
If you also want to patchup again, then you can stay in touch with common friends, because to a large extent these friends can help both of you patch up.
2. Do you want to move?
After breakup, if you want to move forward in life or move on, then you need to pay attention to it.
If you have a plan to move-on, then you should get away from common friends for some time. Because if you keep in touch with them, then you can get lost in your old memories of X again and even if it does not happen, you can get into his pain by not finding him among you.
3. Stay away from friends on social media
If everyone tries to learn about their X through their common friends on social media, then your old memories can hurt again and you will get pain from those memories besides Nothing to be found.
Therefore, it should be avoided to remain in touch with common friends on social media until the breakup is resolved.
4. Tell your heart to friends
It is not right to break the relationship with common friends after the breakup. If you are trying to move on, then talk to your common friends once about this so that they can understand that your relationship is not over, but to recover from the recent breakup. Want to spend some time alone.
5. Meet as before after move-on
If you have a breakup and you have moved on, meet your common friends as before. Then see, seeing you laughing and playing, they will also meet you as before.
If you suddenly stopped talking to them after the breakup, then tell them about your situation and also say that your purpose was not to end the friendship, but there should be no squabble, so let alone for some time. Wanted to live in But as soon as you have forgotten the old things, then you return to old friends again.
But believe me if he is your true friend, then he will definitely help you in this matter. So when the problem comes, share with friends.
You can also read our breakup tips section for more such information.
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