On the one hand, important questions continue to resonate in the minds of unmarried people, 'Marry or not' and if you do, whom do you think, while married people keep thinking how to make married life more sweet. Sadhguru is addressing these questions in today's spot:
Right Person For Marriage
I am often asked a question about how to choose the right person to make a spouse or a marriage. Trying to find a perfect partner is like expecting the impossible. One reason for frequent mess at weddings is that you have to share a lot of things in this relationship. The issue is neither of marriage nor of women-man or husband-wife. Under any circumstances, if you have to share a lot of things with someone else, then you will have to face similar problems.
There is no harm in marrying. But even if you do not need marriage within you, it is a crime, because then you will cause misery in your life and at least one more person's life. In marriage or simply living together, usually You share a place and the same things. The result is that you are coming in each other's way in some way or the other daily. In other relationships, if a person starts exceeding boundaries, then you can keep distance from him. But in this relationship you do not have this option. The more intrusive the boundary of the other, the greater the crossing of the boundaries, the greater the probability of collision.
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Couples and Compatibility
There are many couples in the world who live together beautifully, love each other deeply and are tremendous companions of each other. But with this, this relationship can also take the worst form. This is also because no one knows what rude and bad things are happening between two people behind closed doors. If someone crushes your feet on the road, you will react the other way, because everyone is watching you. But nobody is watching you in this relationship, so anything can happen.
Imperfections are Perfections
Being an ideal person does not make a marriage successful, because no human being is ideal in this world. Therefore, the most important thing - total loyalty and honesty. Whether someone is watching you or not, but you should behave the same way everywhere. Depending on where and with whom you are, you should not change who you are. Once you have decided your way of existence, dealing with others can be a pleasure. One aspect of this is that if you always want to get something from each other and if you or the front person does not get what they want, then there will be constant conflict between the two.
