After the breakup, a question continues to haunt those who start dating again, whether to tell me about their ex or not. Then comes to mind, this time not next time I will tell you. But when that right time comes, no one knows. If you too are confused about such a question, then instead of getting upset, find a way out.
I asked this question to actress Harleen Sethi. Also spoke to some people who have gone through such situations. The answer came from there. If you like this too, you can try it for your love life.
Is it important to tell about ex girlfriends?
What do you think it would be right to hide? It is not a bad thing to tell about your past. If you hide it, there may be problems in the relationship later.
Like, how would you feel if you came to know about the new girlfriend's ex from someone else? Obviously it will feel bad. But if your new girlfriend tells the same thing first, then it might not be so bad.
So tomorrow, do not try to hide from your current girlfriend. The foundation of a new relationship should not be laid on the basis of lies. Therefore, we know the right time to share this.
Tell me about ex on first date or not?
If you are going on a date for the first time after the breakup, then remove the old things from the heart. Taking those things with you, you might not be able to spend a good time there.
Kavita Singh said that hardly any girl would want to know about ex on the first date. So do not talk like this in the first meeting. But before proposing it is right to state this. If you tell after proposing, then the relationship may get complicated in the beginning. I also believe that do not talk about ex on the first date.
What to say when you ask for ex on your first date?
If the girl asks you about your past on the first date, then try to handle it. You can say, 'Can we talk about this later? Or you can also say that we talk about ourselves at the moment.
This will make the girl feel that you are not trying to hide anything. You can also talk about this later. Chances are the girl will agree and your first date will be successful. Only then will the matter of further meeting be made.
If the girl is pushing too hard, talk to her normal. In the meantime, keep yourself under control. Do not use any kind of dirty language about your ex. You can also describe the breakup in good words.
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When should I tell about ex?
If the girl has not asked you about the past even after the first, second, third… date, it is good. But you tell him about it at the right time. Before reaching the proposal between you two, share your past with the girl. Knowing this, if the girl does not accept you, do not pressure her too much.
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Harleen said, 'Many girls do not mind this thing. Personally, I don't mind it. It is good that the boy is telling his truth. What will be achieved by forming a relationship with a girl who does not accept the truth. Therefore, the partner who loves you truthfully is right.
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Harleen gave more amazing tips like 'Love Guru'. With the help of which you can improve your relationship. Also, they can understand what they like and dislike on dating.
There is a right to be happy after the breakup, so try these tips. With their help, you can easily forget your ex.