Man, why do relationships have to be so difficult? Well, if I had the answer to that, I would be rich. But, I guess all the hard work and drama is worth it. But the thing about relationships is that they’re a two-way street. And that means it’s not always going to work in your favor. Lets talk about sexual attraction, which is why we’re here. I mean, really, your girl may have been incredibly attracted to you to begin with. And you may be attracted to her. Now somewhere along the way, perhaps you’re starting to see signs your girlfriend isn’t sexually attracted to you anymore.
#1 She chooses masturbation over love. There are times when we would rather masturbate than have love. But for your partner, this has become a reoccurring trend. She doesn’t want to have love with you; she prefers to masturbate. Now, this isn’t a bad thing, but you need to find out what’s causing this. Is it her lack of sexual attraction towards you or something else?
#2 You feel there’s a switch. You just know, deep inside of you, something has changed. You can’t necessarily pinpoint what it is, but something is very off. All the warm, loving feelings you have are still there, but for your partner, you’re not feeling the reciprocation.
#3 She’s distant towards you when things get physical. You start to touch her and try to arouse her, but she’s not having it. Instead of engaging in physical contact, she pulls away. This isn’t to say she won’t touch you back, she will, but it’s very calculated and shallow.
#4 She makes remarks about your body. When we’re not sexually attracted to someone, we’re more aware of their physical flaws. And if she starts commenting on your body, pointing out things she doesn’t like, well, that’s one of the probable signs your girlfriend isn’t sexually attracted to you. First of all, no one should ever do that.
#5 Her body language changes when you touch her. Of course, since she’s your partner, you want to show her affection with hugs and kisses. But when you go in for a hug or kiss, her body language isn’t giving you welcoming vibes. Her body tenses, the hug or kiss is very shallow, and she doesn’t let you get too close. Something is up.
#6 You have to initiate everything. And when I mean everything, I mean everything. Though she used to touch, kiss, and hug you, that’s all come to a slow stop. Now, if you want any affection, you need to ask for it from her. And even when she gives you affection, it doesn’t feel right.
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