There has been a lot of change in Indian society regarding marriage. Now love marriage is becoming as common as the arranged marriage. However, there are still many families, where this type of marriage is not allowed. If your family is also one of them, then we are giving some tips, which may help you in persuading your parents.
Choose the right time
If you already know that your parents can object to your decision to make love marriage, then it is better to wait for the right time to inform them. Wait for such situations when your parents are in a good mood and there is no tension in the home environment. During this time, tell them that there is a special thing in your life, with which you want to spend life.
Seek Relative’s help
Before telling the parents, seek the help of a relative who is respected or laughed at in the eyes of your parents. Together with him decide how you will put this information in front of the family and how to convince them for it. When you go to talk, take this relative as well, so that if the situation worsens, he can handle the situation and take your side.
Prove yourself matured
This point is the most important. If parents are not sure that their daughter or son can make the right decision for themselves, then they will never agree to their choice. It is better to win the trust of your parents and prove that you are a matured person, who is ready to carry on a relationship like marriage. This will happen only when the parents see some weight in your talk.
Tell your parents about who you have decided to be your spouse. From job profile to share this information, why is it a perfect choice for you and your family too? If you have an experience in which you are going through a difficult time and during that time your loved one has supported you, then do not forget to share it. This will help the incident parents understand that the one you have chosen will stand firmly with you in every situation.
Be patient
do not expect that your parents will agree to things as you say. In this situation, it is very important for you to be patient. If they refuse, then keep doing the normal react and keeping the same mood, ask them from time to time, ‘Have you changed your opinion about your marriage?’ If you show a rebellious attitude, then your parents may agree because of the pressure, but after marriage it will be very difficult for them to accept your spouse, which will not be good for the partner.
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