No one would ever want a divorce to be the end of married life. But it happens that couples do not want to get divorced, and grief happens when both of them have no idea that the matter can reach here. So whenever it is found out or the partner tells that he wants to get a divorce from you, then for a time, the landslips under the feet, in such a situation it is difficult to handle yourself, along with a case till the case goes on in the court. It becomes impossible to live under the roof, this problem increases even when the children are together, and it is seen that it happens to most women that their husbands suddenly demand a divorce or directly show paper. It is very important to manage such a situation that all decisions should be made by thinking calmly.
• First of all, make sure whether you want to save this marriage or not? If the answer is yes, then decide that whatever efforts will be taken for this, you will make an action plan.
• Talk to your spouse, it may be because of them that you have never noticed or talked about, and if you have any idea what is the reason for their sudden decision, then talk about it And try to explain them.
• Stop treating yourself as poor or poor, and do not begin front of them, but make them realize their responsibility with full self respect, explain the need and importance of this marriage by giving examples of time spent, love and if there are children. This work will not be done in a day, keep trying for it, from morning tea to dinner, whenever you see the opportunity talk about it, yes it is not right to talk about it all the time, so try Seeing the right mood and environment, raise the matter, because it is certain that he is equally upset with this divorce like you.
• Maintain your individuality, and give them a little space, maybe you have taken these steps in anger, then over time you will realize your mistake yourself.
• Try to keep your relationship as normal as before in these difficult days. As far as possible, try to repeat the old days, when you had love, affection and bonding in people, it may cause the partner’s mind set to change.
• Whatever have been the mistakes so far in this relationship, even if it is not yours but your partner does not think so, then even to end the matter, make a habit of accepting those mistakes right, because if your marriage If you want to save, then you have to understand the border line of your self respect and relationship, and decide what is important for you.
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