It is very important for Healthy Relationship to be independent of each other. Many couples probably do not achieve their relationship goals for this reason. Later on, there is an estrangement or forced relationship between some other thing in their relationship.
For example, when a partner in a relationship becomes dependent on another partner, then that relationship becomes a cause of trouble later.
Mental and financial problems are most common in that relationship. Whereas if both partners are self-reliant or self-reliant, then they do not hesitate to take any decision.
Here are some reasons why you can understand that it is necessary to be ‘self-sufficient’ even in a relationship-
1. Relationship will not become cumbersome (Relationship Burden)
How much a single person can handle. Although initially these things are not known, but later they start to become difficult. It seems that the relationship has become a burden. The responsibility of carrying it has been imposed on one person.
If there is self-sufficiency then there is no need to think about this. That relationship goes on happily. Despite many troubles, both together manage the relationship well.
2. No Financial Crisis
There is very little financial trouble before marriage. But as soon as live in relationship or live together after marriage, financial strength becomes necessary. Many people have financial troubles because of the rottenness in their relationship.
At the same time, if both partners are working. In such a situation, they do not have to face any kind of financial problem. From the need of home, he is able to meet his needs easily.
Whereas, if only one person is going to earn, then he is not able to fulfill all the needs.
Because of this, incompleteness begins to go home with taunting in their relationship. Regarding this, relationship expert Dr. Nisha Khanna also told the couple ways to avoid financial trouble.
3. There will be no compromise to compromise
A person who is self-reliant hardly knows how to compromise his happiness. That is why everyone, from the government to good parents, teaches their children to become self-sufficient. So that they are not constrained in front of anyone.
For example, if there is only one person to earn, then he can buy something for himself or his partner at one go. In this way, to get the relationship going, every time a habit of compromise is formed. So if you do not want to maintain the relationship with compromise then become self-sufficient and make your partner as well.
4. Decision Maker
Will those who depend on others ever decide for themselves or for someone else? The answer is simple – not at all. So many times we are not able to take decisions even after wishing. One has to accept the imposed decision of someone else even if they do not want to.
Therefore, it is important to depend on yourself to maintain your independence in the relationship. It is often seen that due to dependence on other partner, we cannot refuse anything, whether he likes or dislikes.
5. Sweet relationship will remain in the relationship
Sweetness will remain in the relationship only when you and your partner are away from mental and financial problems. Therefore, it becomes necessary for a healthy relationship to be ‘self-sufficient’.
6. Strong Relationship
Relationship will be strong only when there are least problems in your relationship. Because the relationship is weakened by the frequent differences. Due to which later this relationship gets to the verge of breakdown. So be self-sufficient to keep the relationship strong.
Self-reliance is not just about jobs!
Being self-reliant is not a direct relation of doing a job. Many times we have to leave regular job in the relationship. Yes, but apart from this, we continue our household work, our personal work, partner’s help, etc.
It is not that washing clothes, cooking is just a girl’s job. Also, girls should not think that doing jobs is only boy’s job. Therefore, both should consider their respective responsibilities and move ahead with time. This can be said to be self-sufficient in the relationship.
All problems are not solved by ‘self-reliance’!
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