Brother Sister Relation is considered to be the strongest. Even this bond does not break till death. But every relationship has its responsibility. Whom the two play together, then this relationship goes on.
The sister accompanies her brother at every step. But when the turn of the sister comes, many brothers do not care about their sister’s wish. They try to snatch away the things that make them happy. Whereas as a boy, they do the same right.
Therefore, we will try to break some such bonds so that even a sister can live happily.
‘Tandava’ in the name of protecting sister
In Indian society, brother’s duty is to protect sister. But how right is it to take away his fundamental right or freedom in the name of protecting it? This is a question a boy should ask himself. One girl, on the condition of not saying her name, said, ‘My brother used to keep me as a prisoner at first but later when I fought from house to family, he came to know about my wishes. After that he started understanding me. ‘
She adds, “I have many friends who are entitled to their brothers.” They still treat them like they used to in the olden days. We girls have to fight not only with the society but with our own people. Why no one understands us without speaking. I do not know why we need to explain this to them. Whereas, boys get freedom from family for these things. ‘
Truth of the Patriarchy in Society
Shanti, who talks about women’s rights, says that hardly anyone thinks of a girl in the Patriarchy Society as sister, wife, mother. She is suppressed as an underage woman. It is seen at every level. Wants to keep siblings in their undies At the same time, the husband also wants to keep the wife under his purview. But now there is a need to think beyond this orthodox thinking.
Now you think, do you want to be a part of the Patriarchy Society?
1. Party with friends
Girls were sent to college to study, but still they do not have the right to party or have fun. Even a brother does not like this. While the boy can party with his friends wherever he wants, no one stops. Actually partying is forbidden. Therefore, you did not stop your sister from having fun.
2. Why time bounds?
When time is imposed on you, you feel bound. But how can it be right to tie your sister in the door of time. If he takes a little more time after coming from school-college, then why bother with questions? If you really want to see your sister as free as you are then do not put any time restriction.
3. Freedom to choose a life partner
You have also made someone’s sister a girlfriend. But when someone becomes your sister’s boyfriend, then you get beaten up. What kind of love is this? If you love love, then accept your sister’s partner as well. If he has liked the partner of his own will then why scold him?
4. No restriction on studying
In many parts of India, there is no problem in teaching girls even to school. But as soon as the girls ask for college, their brothers start stopping them. While he himself is a college student. So instead of stopping your sister from studying, support her.
5. Do not refuse to work
If the sister is eager to do the job then why stop. Help him by becoming a brother and not create obstacles. Because it is good to make him self-sufficient so that he can live his life tomorrow.
What does the law say?
We do not need to elaborate on the law here. Just understand that the constitution does not give the right to stop a girl. Everyone has an equal right to live their life. So if you want the matter of the relationship not to reach the law, then you should avoid becoming fetters for your sister.
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