Love is a common thing between teenage and youth. Common is heartbreaking than that. Parents of earlier times never talked about this to their children. But now the time has changed. Children openly discuss their crush, boyfriend or girlfriend with their parents. Children’s mind is very soft in Teenage. If you have love now, your heart will break.
When the heart breaks for the first time, there is a lot of discomfort. On one hand, your teenager children are entangled in the stress of their school, friends and career, while the pain of heartbreak increases these complications manifold. They feel as if this is the end of the world.
Remind him who he is
First love is a new and completely different experience for your children. In such a situation, children often drown in such a way that they forget themselves. Their perspective of seeing themselves after the breakup may also change. They start weighing themselves based on the parameters of beauty in society. But you have to bring back their confidence in themselves. They have to make sure that they are completely perfect. Let them know that boyfriends / girlfriends will keep coming, but we need to learn to love ourselves.
Try to keep them busy
Thinking about what is most harmful after heartbreak. Thinking about his X, he keeps drowning in the same negative feeling again and again. That is why it is important that your children stay busy. They are busy in school or college studies, but after coming home, children often feel lonely and start living alone. In such a situation, try to create a new hobby in the child. Take them to karate, guitar, swimming or any other class. When the minds of the children are busy, they will not drown in this negative feeling and they will be able to recover from this breakup.
Tell them your story
When something bad happens to us, we feel that we have become alone. We feel that this has happened only with us in the world. When your child breaks his heart, he feels the same. So don’t let him be alone at all. This is the right time when you can tell her your old stories that once your heart was broken in this way and you too felt that the world ended here. But nothing like this happened. You went ahead and you are very happy today. Tell them that they are not alone, you understand their feeling and are always with them.
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