Spend less time together
It is not right to think more about them. Go out and spend time with your other friends. This can be a good way to divert attention. Do not be easily available. Take some time to respond to their messages and calls. If they are interested in you even a little bit, then your absence will remind them of you and will increase their desire towards you. According to Robert Cialdini’s book Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, based on the concept of scarcity, people tend to give more importance to something that meets or is overcome by Mushkil. If they don’t remember you then they are not interested in you. It would be better to find someone else.
Create competition
There can be nothing better than jealousy to promote their desire towards you. Go on a date with other attractive boys and admire the date in front of them. When they offer you to go on a date, then cite other plans and postpone them. Let them feel that there are more people who want you. If you go to a party with them, then flirt with other boys. Knowing that someone else likes you, the tightness of jealousy that arises in them is undoubtedly valuable.
Help & ask
Ask them to do something for themselves for change and you sit and watch them. Studies show that when people do something for you, they start liking you. This is called the Ben Franklin effect. Ask them to pick or drop themselves, fix some stuff or ask for advice.
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