Creating new girlfriends after a breakup is not very difficult but marrying again after divorce is not as easy. Especially, if you have fought love with society and family, then the challenge of fulfilling the relationship increases.
Anyway, be it marriage love or an arranged life partner, who would want to lose. If you understand that love and love will become the thing by becoming the best boyfriend, then this is not possible. Because now the girlfriend has become a wife and you have to become a better husband.
Therefore it is important to understand love life and marriage life.
Anyway, you will know that the divorce rate in India is 1.2%, but the highest number of marriages occur in love marriages.
Ranveer Singh-Deepika Padukone (Deepveer), Priyanka Chopra-Nick Jonas, Virat Kohli-Anushka Sharma can be influenced by couples but have to learn a few things to maintain a relationship.
If you want to run love marriage then you should know some things.
1. Accept change easily
During love we are able to give very little time to each other. But after marriage, both spend more time together, so it is not possible to hide anything. During this time, all the layers about each other open up. So both feel that after marriage their partner has changed, it was not like this, why has it become like this etc.
You need to understand that the opportunity to get to know each other is available only after marriage. Pre-marriage defection and fun is now burdened with responsibilities that need to be handled. In such a situation, do not judge the change of partner and understand it and try to convince your wife also. This will allow the two of you to understand each other soon.
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2. Keep surprise and romance intact
During dating, the lover-girlfriend sees thrills and excitement in everything. There is also a desire to gain newness in them. Hide and seek in love means the pleasure of meeting in secret. It feels romantic to get wet in the rain before marriage, but after marriage, the fear of getting sick starts hurting, giving gifts, etc., it seems ridiculous, caring things also seem boring. Perhaps this is the name of marriage.
We need to overcome these things. Not always, but keep giving surprise on any special occasion or sometimes. Anyway, you know that girls love surprise and this helps in strengthening the relationship. Surprise giving is not just about giving gifts. Now you need to reconcile then you will be able to spend your life happily.
3. Learn to ignore
When we start living with someone, we see every little thing. This does not mean that we interfere in everything. In the same way, when girlfriends and boyfriends start staying close after marriage, they start to treat each other’s behavior.
Even if earlier, you used to give advice to your girlfriends before eating, drinking, shopping, dressing and grooming. Many people ignored him because of being in love. But now living together can be a little difficult to ignore but you have to learn to ignore.
Like – do not give him advice on things like grooming, bathing, eating and drinking. Also, let her do some small things according to her mind as she cannot change now. It is not possible to change the habit which has started since childhood. Therefore, you should ignore the things inside the house.
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4. Do not show false dreams
It may be that while making a boyfriend, you have made some promises and failed to fulfill them. But at that time you did not face much trouble. Now avoid doing this after marriage. If you do not fulfill the promise after making it, it will weaken your trust. There will come a time when these things will become the cause of quarrel. Because of this your relationship can break.
This does not mean that you do not make any promise to him. After marriage, it is your responsibility to live up to their expectations, because when you do not meet their expectations and expectations, these things lead to tension and they start blaming each other. Also take care of his likes and dislikes.
5. Keep sex life healthy
Nowadays, many couples make a physical relationship before marriage, while many people are unable to do so. But in both the cases you have to keep the sex life healthy. Do not pressure the partner on sex after marriage. Also, staying close is not just about making a physical connection, tie this knot. You should not do anything like this without his consent.
Apart from this, both should also discuss together about family planning. If she wants children after a few years or whatever it is, both plan together. Don’t be too hasty about this matter.
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