It is common to be all flushed and flustered when you see or be around your crush. It is quite common to act all stupid and silly in front of them, mostly because you put too much of pressure on yourselves. Even the coolest of people make these mistakes. Here we will tell you how to act in the right way around your crush and grab their attention.
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#1 First, relax. Listen, I know you have a crush… we’ve all had crushes, but you need to chill out a bit. This is just someone you have feelings for, don’t place them above you. This is why we struggle to be around our crushes and act like ourselves; we place them above us. But they’re no better than you.
#2 Don’t try to act cool. I know you want to know how to act cool in front of your crush and impress them. But here’s something you must know. You can’t “act cool.” Because what is “cool” anyway?
Sure, you can try to act like a character in some rom-com, but that’ll only take you so far. The coolest people are the ones who are themselves. And if your crush sees who you are and likes it, then that’s great. If not, your crush isn’t for you.
#3 Be humble. I know you want to impress your crush, that is everyone’s goal when talking to their crush. But you don’t need to brag to look cool. If you want to impress your crush, aside from being yourself, be humble. As much as you may think bragging is a turn-on, it’s not
#4 Be yourself – always. Your crush may like football and beer, but that doesn’t mean you have to like those things too. Stay true to yourself and don’t try to alter who you are to impress your crush. If you don’t like the same things they like, that’s okay. You know the saying, opposites attract.
#6 Learn from your past mistakes. There were plenty of moments before this crush where you screwed up. It’s completely normal; we’ve all been there. What you need to do is learn from those mistakes and apply what you’ve learned to your new crush.
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#7 Don’t think so far ahead in the future. This was my problem when I had a crush. I would daydream about them, literally thinking about our wedding day and what our kids would look like. Yeah, and obviously, that never ended well. Don’t plan the future with your crush. Live in the moment.
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