Not ready for Relationships
One of the major reasons for not managing relationships is that we are not ready for relationships. We are not prepared for agreements and sacrifices. We are not fully prepared to surrender to maintain relationships. We want everything easily, relationships too. If not met, we break those relationships very easily. We prefer to let love go away rather than give time for love to grow. It is very important to understand love. Often we fall in love with excitement and thrill. We want someone with whom we can go to the movies, spend time and party. But we cannot find such people who can understand us. We do not want to be memories, just want to avoid our boring life. We are not a companion of a lifetime, but seek happiness for a moment. As responsibility reduces our excitement, love also seems to decrease.
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These responsibilities that we must perform together, often alienate us. We do not have patience, we need everything. Winning in the race to achieve materialistic dreams has become life, there is no place for love here. Just need a moment’s fun. Heartbreak does not break here and they move ahead with stubbornness. We have a hurry in everything, whether it is to post online states, to choose a career or to love someone again. Everyone wants maturity in love, but no one wants to give time. People have forgotten that maturity comes with time. It takes years to connect feelings towards each other, in a minute we cannot know anyone. There is time and patience in today’s relationships, otherwise how will love be?
We like to spend every hour among hundreds of people, instead of spending a day with someone. We have become social people. There is a lot of choice here. We believe in getting to know and meet more and more people. Love in a moment, a breakup in a moment, and the next moment in a new relationship. We do not even try to know the same good and evil. We want everything to be perfect. We date a lot of people but do not give a chance to anyone seriously. There are some shortcomings in any tax.
Technology and Practical People
The technology has brought us so close to each other that breathing has become difficult. More texts, voice messages etc. have taken over than meeting each other. We do not find it necessary to spend time with others. We get to know each other so soon that there is nothing left to talk about. We have commitment phobia. On looking a little difficult, we have started thinking of never being a setel. We feel burdened with someone. In the desire to look different from the rest, relationships seem easy to run away from. Marriage or commitment has become old fashion for today’s generation.
Having love is nothing more than to prove himself to be modern. It is wrong to associate love and love with each other. We first have love and then think whether we can fall in love with him or not. love can be done comfortably but trust and confidence do not happen so easily. You do love for love rather than to curb your eagerness. Relationships have also become different, such as open relationship, Fling relationship, friends with benefit, etc. We are practical people, find logic in everything, we do not know to love. We like to break the relationship by making a flight excuse or taking an excuse for our long distance better than taking two days off from work. We are very sensitive.